Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Management styles and why they matter

 


                After 10 years as a manager and then a LOT as not a manager I have had a unique point of view of different skills, styles and personalities of managers who have worked in pretty much the same industry. I worked security as a younger person and became a manager and then, after university and collage…I know I know….I was a manager and supervisor in a customer service industry and then stepped down to be a regular CSR for the last 20 years. I have to say that as many managers as I have had, only a handful were what I would call GREAT and a few good, mostly however, and unfortunately, I have been under some very incompetent and misplaced managers. I have, by no means, been perfect myself but this is what I observed over the last 30 years or so of my employment history.

                The first thing you need to know is that not everyone is set up emotionally, mentally and character wise to be a good manager. I have seen people who the power goes to their head, or they see it as a excuse to slack and blame others, or worse in some cases to rob the company they work for blind. None of these are good but the damage they do to employees can be catastrophic for a company. It costs a great deal of time and money to train and set up an employee, and one bad manager can throw that money away and give the company a bad reputation.  Currently I have five managers, four team leads and a manager that I report to and of the five….two are great, one is okay and two are in the wrong position…but I will get to that.

 

                The key management styles that people take on can only work well if they are in the correct position and the style fits the employer in general. Having taken my share of business courses and having the experience I have I can tell you that some of the management styles I’m going to talk about work much better than others, and some are just poorly applied. Not all managers or their styles will work in all jobs and some jobs DEMAND that you have a specific style.  Also, a manager should never feel stuck in one style, they should flow and move between them depending on what needs to be done. Not all managers do this however and the attempts fall flat.  We have all seen them on TV the wrong manager style and the wrong situation and the person looks like an idiot or an overbearing putz.  Here are the styles and some insights on when and how to use them.

 

                First off we have the natural, first level of management. The one that most managers go through and then come out the other end after a short period of time realizing its not perfect at all. The “Authoritarian/Autocrat” often called the Tyrant by those that are being managed to heavily by this person. The manager naturally holds power over others and can make important decisions, they expect staff to behave and listen to them, however it is easy to overuse this style and become a dictator. This style or Level 0 is demotivational and the person risks removing themselves from conversations and being ostracized by the team as they are seen as heavy handed and…well a dick!

                This level is important because a manager has to have the ability to make decisions with little to no input and when things go sideways you have to be able to drag this out of your personality to manage those who are off the rails, but to much of this and you will be looking for new team members…and possibly a new job. When I did security, I could identify as being a Authoritarian manager, but it was often only in the times when the situations were tense, and I had to dictate quickly what was happening. Only once did a guard not respond to me as a manager, an older guy who thought he knew it all…he was asked to move on.  In some situations, the Authoritarian is important, but most of the time its just to much, back off and pick a different approach.

                Most good martial arts instructors maintain a level of authoritarian but with, as my instructors used to say, a level of benevolence to the authoritarian dictatorship.  This does not work well outside the Dojo mind you.

 

                On the opposite side of the Dictatorial authoritarian is the Democratic or Participative manager. This manager likes to get the team involved in all decision making and values their input and engagement. The running of a department is more a collaboration than a directed one. This works very well if the manager is managing other leaders, but it’s a horrible idea if you are doing this with a front line staff.  The first thing you lose is respect and most people see this approach as a cop out and shucking of responsibilities. Again, some times you can have a vote or collaboration, but it should only be a vote based on multiple choice not an open ended question. Yes you should listen to your staff if they have complaints or ideas, but not a general “How should we do…anything” kind of approach. I have to tell you this is the most annoying of the management styles if done wrong. The “leader” is anything but a leader, they become a prisoner to the staffs whims and often find that they themselves are gone when upper management realizes that they are…for all intensive purposes….not managing.

                To avoid this kind of issue, one should always half make up their mind as to what is going to occur, what the choices for the staff will be and when listening to staff do so from a position of authority  not one of handing your authority away. It also only works if you have a mature and seasoned staff, a manager of new staff should NEVER give up their authority in order to try and find some kind of acceptance with the staff.

 

                The next is the most ineffective style I have run into next to a pure authoritarian, the Delegative or Laissez-faire manager. It’s the hands off, trusting the team to run themselves and the “don’t bug me, IM busy” manager. Of all the managers this one is the most depicted on TV for some reason. The guy with the magazine under his arm as he goes for a 2 hour break to the bathroom or the guy that is always on coffee break, but okay to sit and chat when you want to talk non- work things. This style can work if you are not 100% set on hands off, if you know your team and they have been around for years doing the job well you can be a bit more hands off, but a incompetent person will fall into this or the dictator slot easily as it covers their tracks and makes it impossible to nail down what they did that day.

                I once worked for a big, at the time, sport company and the manager I had would be what I would call a skilled delegative manager. He trusted everyone, after they were hired and trained. He knew I was a good sales person and he gave me everything I needed to know the products inside and out, he would call me up and say “come in the rep is here and you can get a free pair of shoes and he will educate you on them” and then he would let us learn and go to work, he did not tell us anything other than a “Good job” once and a while. He worked on his own sales and he was not a great dictator, it worked for him, but he also had assistant managers that were DOGS and would hound you till your sales were up to the minimum and any discipline, he did not do it! I also had some very wishy washy managers in other jobs who hid and did not do their jobs. This is a weird management style because it CAN work but only in specific situations.

 

                The Coach is the perfect manager style for employers who have a high turn over, who need guidance in an every changing environment and honestly it should be the go to for ALL managers, or at least the one in the back pocket of ANY successful manager.  My own management style tended to be the coach. I used to pride myself on helping people that others felt were not going to be successful and make them excellent. The coach is always thinking long term, mentoring others, and looking at way to train and gently motivate others. I have had a few people who fit into this style who helped me along the way and actually more so helped others and that motivated me to learn how they did it.  The coach is not about charisma its about really helping others to understand and to want to push the limits themselves.

                A coach would work in 99% of the environments but to be a successful manager your coach should be kept to between 30-40%.  If a manager is to much of a coach at the wrong times then they are basically a trainer with now push to manage others, just to motivate and train…again, a good coach is hard to find and in my experience most of them do transition into training only.  I was a good coach and always tried to keep that focus with my team as we ramped up four times a year then slowly, through attrition and letting people go due to call volume would level off and then a new team would come in for training…and honestly I was looking to transition into training and just never did it.

 

                Transformational managers or “Messiah” managers are great for inspiration and motivation…but they often come across as frauds and weird religious leaders.  At first, they are looking to motivate and create a cohesive approach to innovation, change and drive towards a shared vision. All gas and no breaks, they are the kind that give you goose bumps listening to them. If they stick to this the whole thing gets hold and the approach dies on the vine.

                This one is one of the weakest actual styles because it’s a flash in the pan, all flash no substance.  It is important to have the skills to be transformational when you are looking at driving a team during times of change or at start up when you want cohesive approaches and energy behind them. However, if you maintain this “You can do it” mentality with out showing someone how to “Do it” or letting them know why…its sad and will lead to people ignoring you. Don’t get me wrong, a good “Spiritual leader” of the office can be popular and as a owner of a business can create loyalty in clients, but its not real and those using it can fall into the same traps as other styles that simply stop working on the team.

 

                 Next to the coach the Servant leader is perhaps one of the most effective and helpful styles you can create. They prioritize the team and each person’s well-being, in this case it’s the leader serving the needs of the team. This style works best with long term campaigns or ongoing projects. The Servant manager is good with existing teams and those that need ongoing support, in fact it’s the second style I liked to take up. I always thought of it as “the way they work reflects on me” so I would support the heck out of my team and anything they needed I gave them, and that often came with extra coaching, going to bat for them with higher ups and working with people who needed a bit of help.

                The issue with this type of manager however is when its exclusively the style that someone uses it can be seen as spineless!  One should never see all team members as irreplaceable and you should never put your business ahead of a single team member, or even the whole team. This is a good way to get canned yourself.  The Management style however is one that will endear you to any team member struggling to get stuff done who is still trained well and doing their job, but facing issues that come up on a daily basis in any job.  This should be the default for a good manager that is looking for long term team viability and one should phase in and out of this style as needed.

 

                “what have you don’t for me lately” that’s the Transactional managers mentality.  You have to prove yourself on the daily with them, either you are positive for them and you get rewarded or you have dragged the team down (in their mind) and you are getting punished for it.  Sales managers tend to be use this type of style as it fits into the goals of the team.  The focus is on performance, more so in some rouge cases its more perception and nonfunctional things.  I had a manager, a Karen, who was like this and the style that seems to fit best with this, she was a transactional dictator.  You were never as good as her but if you made her look good, or made her feel like you idolized her or were just on her side she had your back and spoke nice about you to the higher ups knowing you would also do the same. She bent the (broke) the rules for me and my wife so many times it was not funny and just because of the mentality she had. But the second we did anything that critiqued her or her job as a manager, we became enemy one on her dart board at work. You could actually draw a straight line between her feeling we were on her side and our getting special treatment (the wife called me her golden boy) and us telling her boss the truth about how she treated others and us being her targets.

                The positive to this style is that you have a very tangible reason for rewarding your team and it can motivate sales or performance, but the flip side is you often have a tangible and real reason for punishment, not that punishment is a good thing at work. The motivation can be off the charts depending on how its used and the focus of said rewards. However, as with most of these the style has a very real downside. Even if you are rewarding those that are performing well some managers fall into rewarding the same team members over and over again.  A reward can be anything from monetary rewards to prizes to recognition via trophies and other stuff.  The danger is creating a “Popular kids” club and causing others to see the whole thing as a scam to ensure the “Popular kids” get prizes and recognition while the worker bees get nothing.

                Transaction styles are great for small campaigns or for short term sales promotions. Its something you can use but ensure its fair and that you spread the wealth when it comes to actually rewarding people. I would avoid the punishment part as well simply to avoid the whole idea that you favor specific people and push the rest. I had one manager when I did security who tried his best to get rid of specific people. He gave them the worst shifts and sites to drive them away and when it was noted he said it was punishment for being poorly set up to deal with the public. He did not last long.

 

                Another Mesiah complex style is the Visionary or Authoritative style. This is best left to high level CEO or managers near the top. I have worked under a few of them and they vary a lot.  One ran a hotel I worked at he shared his vision and set the direction for all of us to work in and it was very well received as the managers under him were all inspired, but his hands off approach was kind of like throwing a motivational bomb into a room and closing the door, if we all did what he wanted it was amazing, if not it was a lot of dysfunctional managers trying to run their departments and make the owner happy, but stepping all over each other.  He could charm the hell out of you and would tell you one thing, get you going and then tell someone else the same thing and have you thinking differently then the other guy, thus we worked against each other a lot.

                Our security manager was hired away from a security company when I was just a guard, he was told to clean up the place, make it safe and secure, he took the cool aid and ran with it so to speak…he ended up finding out that one of the other managers was stealing things from his department and when he tried to have him fired…he was fired because not matter how good a speech…family is family.  The visionary is a great upper level boss, but consistency is important.  And at a lower level the style leaves a lot to be desired.  Those that try to be visionaries at the lower level are never taken seriously and worse, they rip teams apart by leaving to much to interpretation.

                A good CEO will set up a vision, set out directions and loose ideal and standards to gage success then let loose the managers to work towards the goals, often just checking in to bump up moral.  This is the best use of this style of management. Let yourself be the messiah and the visionary but don’t expect to be precisely followed or seen as anything more than a visionary. And most CEO’s that fall into this category are great leaders in that they pump up the teams and give very loose objectives then let their more skilled underlings do the hard work….think Elon Musk!

 

                The last style is one that most managers dream of being and fall far short most times…the pacesetter! The pace setter works best if you are the kind of manager that gets in the trenches and pushes to be the best, set the performance standards and expect the same from your staff. You may be a bit demanding but you are pushing the pace from the front of the pack. The Pace Setter is great for someone who works in a car dealership as a sales manager who needs to show the staff how its done, or as was my case, a sales manager who works in a retail industry. The Pace setter sets a standard and works towards it constantly…it can be motivational or it can be deflating to the staff. Also, it can become abusive and problematic if the manager is either never hitting standards, cheating to stay ahead or bullying staff when they don’t win or push the pace….excuses also seem to fair well with this manager.

                Far to often someone gets a team lead position or management position and become a ghost when it comes to performance of duties, its an excuse to STOP doing the job. This is okay if they pick up the other styles, but often they walk away from being a team member to coach, motivate and punish only. But if you put them back in the position to try and support the staff you realize they are woefully incompetent at doing the job they are asked to manage. To avoid being a demanding manager and also to avoid being seen as totally incompetent, a manager should jump into the job and get their feet wet regularly. In my current position I would LOVE and have loved seeing managers take calls and help clients. Its often painful as they forgot what its like and need some coaching themselves, but it creates respect and shows that they are trying to help. I also see a lot of team leads and managers abandon the actual work and when things get busy they try and shift things around with out doing anything themselves. I totally do not respect those that don’t pitch in with meaningful hard work when the cue is huge and we are trying to help others. As a manager, when I worked in the call center, I would take a minimum of 10 calls a day, as a security manager I parked cars and did patrols with the guards and put myself in the worst sites when I worked in a site based firm. I made a lot of inroads with guards and my call takers in the phone centers.

 

                The key to being a good manager is knowing what style to adopt for different situations and to push to always focus on the goals of the team to help push them forwards. The art of it is in flowing in and out of styles and not getting set in the wrong one or using the wrong one for a situation. You have to be very self aware of your abilities and character as well. If you are ill suited to be a messiah for the company or its totally not your place then avoid this style. If you are not a great coach maybe leave that to someone else and lets face it…if you have a track record of being a bad manager but you rock in other places…don’t put the burden of your ill fitting place on others, leave the managing to others.

 

                At times I have had family issues or other issues that made me a bad candidate for a management possiton and I will be the first to admit that I am a far better fit for some styles than others, the down side to them however is more when you don’t realize this and you take on a roll that you are not suited for. I have also seen these styles and probably a few others described in courses and thought “that’s a great way to put that” or” that’s much better than the last guy stated it” does not matter!!!! These are just more common ways to see them and honestly its more about finding your knitch as a manager than wording. If you suck as a manager….get a different job or strive to be better and find a good mentor…not one that just thinks they are better too.

 

                I equate all these to Karate instructors as well because of my interactions with some of the best…and worst in that world and essentially Karate instructors are a micro cause of these titles.

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